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The Wanlorn ([personal profile] the_wanlorn) wrote2004-10-03 10:26 pm
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Do you ever wonder if you should tell someone something? Or if it's none of their business, or not important, or not relevent, or doesn't matter, or you just plain don't want them to know?

I have that issue.

I can't decide if I should tell someone something or not. It has nothing to do with them. Or with my relationship with them. It's solely me. Something I do. Or did, stopped for a while, and sorta kinda butnotreally started again.

Or maybe the person noticed and didn't put the almost-non-existent pieces together. And maybe this entry will make it all click, so I shouldn't post it. Or I should lock it from the person I'm talking about.

Or maybe it's not really all that big of a deal. And it's just like, "Oh, yeah, that's nice."

Gahhhh. I can't decide if it's something that I should just keep to myself or not. Damnit. I probably should. I probably shouldn't be saying any of this.

I'll probably just wait until/if the person notices it/brings it up. And then be like, "yeah..." Cuz that doesn't involve me actively going and saying something, just responding truthfully to whatever the person said.

To the few people who (might) (and by few I mean 1) (and by people I mean person) who know what I'm talking about: if you're going to comment, use discretion, ey? Don't want anyone else figuring it out.

...I can't believe I just spent this whole entry talking about Jon as if he didn't know he was the person I was talking about...
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[identity profile] piratezim.livejournal.com 2004-10-03 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)
depends on how personal it is, how much it will upset other people, and how much it is bothering you. i'm sure you can figure out which extremes affect whether you tell or not.

[identity profile] iheartmunkies.livejournal.com 2004-10-04 08:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I started reading it, and didnt know what was wrong... then I figured it out. Then I got to the end and realized I'm the one you're talking aobut knowing. Honestly darling, tell him. It will be better. He's going to read this and panic and WAY overthink it. For all he knows you're talking about being a lesbian or breaking up with him or something. Which I can honestly say Jon, shes not. So dont worry. But tell him. It will be easiest. Hard to tell, easy afterwards. Plus it gives you someone to talk to closely about things... discretion makes me sound weird, but you know waht I mean when I say "talk to closely about things" because OBVIOUSLY you talk to closely about things wiht him, but htis is specific things. Yeah. Hows that?
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